When I was in graduate school and doing informal screenings for students with trouble pronouncing the "R" sound, I devised a clever way to elicit the sound in natural speech: I asked them to talk about the Steelers!
Image retrieved from http://www.rantsports.com/nfl/2013/09/05/pittsburgh-steelers-5-players-to-watch-in-week-1/.
Not only does the home team have an R in it, but many of the players have names with Rs (e.g. Ben
Roethlisbe
rge
r, T
roy Polamalu,
Ryan Shazier). Many positions in football also include an R, like qua
rte
rback, st
rong safety and wide
receive
r. So whether you are lucky enough to have tickets to see the Steelers play at Heinz Field, are just driving by the stadium, or are watching them on TV at home, I suggest having a conversation with your child to practice the R sound in a natural way.
If your child is practicing the R sound at the word level, then start out naming players and positions.
If your child is practicing the R sound at the phrase level, then ask her to name the player and position.
If your child is at the simple sentence level, then have a contest to see who can name a player first. A good sentence starter is, "I see _____."
If your child is at the complex sentence level, then ask her to narrate a play made on the field. Try to target players and position with R sounds.
To start a conversation, ask your child some questions like, "Why are the Steelers your favorite team?" "What does a quarterback do? How does Roethlisberger compare to other quarterbacks?" and "What is special about Heinz Field?"
Image retrieved from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heinz_Field.
If the problem your child is having is that the /r/ sounds more like a
/w/ sound, then SLPs would call that "W-colored." One way to correct
that is to remind your child that when she makes the /r/ sound, her lips
should not be rounded. A great way to practice this is in front of a
mirror. Have her look at your lips when you make an /r/ sound, then
have her look at her lips; compare the two and highlight how her lips
should be spread, not rounded. Another way to avoid this is to begin by
avoiding practice on the "or" sound. The "or" sound requires that we
round our lips, which can exacerbate the problem. Instead, start by
practicing the other vocalic /r/ sounds and remind your child to keep
her lips relaxed. Once you have mastered that, then you can move onto
"or."
Please also keep these articulation tips from a previous post in mind
when working on /r/: The /r/ sound can be difficult to teach and learn
due in part because it
is not a sound that can be seen easily on the face, such as the
pressing of the lips with the /m/ and /b/ sounds, or the movement of the
tongue with /t/ sound. One way to show your child how to make the /r/
sound is to remind her to raise and curl her tongue. Demonstrate to
your child how a raised, curled tongue looks; then, have her practice
this movement. Some children find it helpful to have the instructor
gently push the tongue where it needs to be, either with a gloved finger
or a tongue depressor. This cue is particularly helpful for children
that produce an /r/ sound that mimics the /l/ sound. Another cue is
what we call a "touch" cue. When making the /r/ sound, the sides of the
tongue should touch the molars/wisdom teeth. Thus, remind her to
feel this sensation. I found a link to a site where other SLPs shared their tips for eliciting the sound; here it is:
http://www.playingwithwords365.com/2013/05/how-to-elicit-teach-the-r-sound/.